7 Wedding Day Tips Every Couple Should Know
Your wedding day will be a whirlwind — beautiful, emotional, and quickly come to a close before you know it. But a little intention can go a long way in helping you feel grounded, present, and joyful throughout the day. Here are a few underrated tips from my personal experience as a Bride that can make a major difference for your big day.
Photos by Lisa Leanne Photography
1. Experience the Day Together
Instead of getting pulled in different directions all day, make a conscious effort to experience your wedding side by side. Whether you're greeting & conversing with guests, heading to the bar, or moving from ceremony to reception — stick together. You'll experience more of the day as a couple, and your memories will be that much richer because of it.
2. Intentionally Slow Down
Build in tiny pockets of time just for the two of you — even five minutes can be powerful. Take a breath before walking into the reception, sneak a private toast, or share a quiet moment between photos. These intentional pauses help you absorb the day instead of speeding through it.
3. Preassign Key Roles to Loved Ones
Delegate with purpose. Ask a bridesmaid to make sure you eat and drink. Have a sibling take candid behind-the-scenes photos. Put someone in charge of checking in on family members and the photo shot list. Giving your people meaningful roles lets you relax and be fully present without worrying you’re missing anything.
4. Trust Your Team
You’ve done the work, hired the right vendors, and surrounded yourself with a solid support crew. On the day of, lean into that trust. Let go of logistics and let your team handle the details while you enjoy your day.
5. Extend the Celebration
The wedding day itself flies by. Consider a welcome dinner or drinks event, day-after brunch, or casual get-togethers to stretch the celebration over a few days. It gives you more time with guests and takes pressure off having to see everyone in one night. Underrated? Yes. Worth it? Absolutely. (Speaking from experience!)
6. Take Care of Your Body
Sleep well the night before, eat breakfast (yes, really!), and build in comfort — think backup shoes, a cozy sweater, or even a change of clothes for dancing. Little comforts make a big difference in how you feel and how much energy you have to enjoy every moment.
7. Collect Heartfelt Notes
Ask parents, siblings, or your closest friends to write you letters to read the morning of. These heartfelt words can calm nerves, ground you in love, and remind you what it’s all about — connection and celebration.
One Last Thing…
Your wedding day will be filled with joy, movement, and emotion. Set the tone with intention, make room for real connection, and don’t forget — it’s your day. Be present, stay close, and soak it all in together.
